F.A.Q.

Bagaimana Caranya Menemukan Swinger?

Konsep dari Swinger ini tetaplah sebuah aktifitas yang TABU untuk dilakukan sehingga tidak mungkin kita akan menemukan para pelaku Swinger yang untuk memberitahukan bahwa mereka pelaku swinger menggunakan t-shirt yang bertuliskan 'KAMI ADALAH SWINGER". Tapi kalian akan terkejut bagaimana sahabat anda, rekan kerja anda, keluarga sepupu anda atau tetangga anda ternyata telah benar-benar menjadi bagian dari gaya hidup ini.

Salah satu cara untuk mengetahui bahwa seseorang/pasangan adalah Swinger adalah dengan melacaknya melalui jejaring maya, karena hal ini adalah hal paling aman untuk mencari partner dimana pasangan suami-isteri akan dengan leluasa mengajak atau memberitahukan idealisme mereka tanpa harus mendapat tentangan dari lawan bicara secara langsung ( berhadapan muka), meskipun hal ini tidak 100% akurat, karena juga rata-rata mereka akan menggunakan akun tidak nyata yang sulit dilacak ke-aslian datanya. Tapi tetap metode ini adalah metode yang paling umum dijalani para Swinger.

And then you have internet swinging...such as this. Sure you would expect me to tell you that this is the best way to meet a swinger. But actually, its not... I am a fervent swinger myself and I have been surfing the net since '89 in the lifestyle. I have been duped, posted hundreds of ads, spent a lot of money on membership fees, wasted time answering ads from perverts. This site tend to answer or correct all that and make it easier for the newcomers in the lifestyle to join in.

Is it Safe?

I wish I could tell you it is completely. But if it is any comfort to you, I could say that I have been heavily involved in the lifestyle and never had any problem nor did I hear anything out of the ordinary. But It is in order for me here to advise you to use your judgment and the littlest things are the most important:

never give detailed info in ads
exchange a lot of email before meeting
if the other party is pushing to meet sooner, forget him/her/them
only give info when you feel comfortable
ask for their telephone # or exchange #s at the same time.
talk on the phone before meeting
always tell a friend or parent about the relationship, where and when you will meet the persons and give them as many details as you can about the other party.
let the other party know (subtly of course) that your friend or parent is aware of your meeting.
always meet in a public place.
USE COMMON SENSE.

How do I convince my partner?

Of all the questions, this is the most asked and the most difficult from my stand point to answer since I did not have to go through the process of convincing my partner. But in any case, i think the answer will vary from one individual to another.

If you are married, I strongly suggest you try and involve your wife. Your swinging alone is not a good sign of a good marriage. Swinging is and should be much different than having an affair. It should be an enjoyable activity that a couple participate in and can in most case reinforce the liens. Let her know of your intents and you might be surprised.

One of the reason why a partner might refuse at all to participate in the lifestyle is if they feel as though they are not satisfying you and you are looking for something else. Make sure you show them that you are happy with what you have and that you only wish to expand your sexual life.

What are my chances of meeting through your sevices?

You will be surprised how many people are looking for the same thing. Some just can't have enough of it, some are lonely, some are housewives, some (most) are couples looking to expand their sexual life. So it al depends what you are looking for. But most ads placed here are genuine, current and decent therefore you will not be wasting your time.